February 27, 2010 my life changed. I lost my dad to his battle with cancer, and he was only 52. My daughter Ava and my dad, summer 2009. Today is ten years since he died, and I have to say, it is a very tough day. I didn't expect it to be so difficult, but I am struggling today. Grief can consume, and it is a sneaky thing too, as you don't realize it's going to get you until it does. I am constantly on the verge of tears, my every thought is consumed with memories of him - both good and sad ones. How is it that TEN years has gone by so quickly? I was having a conversation with one of my Google Innovator mentees today, and he was saying how his life was so busy this past month and his Innovator project has somehow paused for a few weeks. He was still motivated and enthusiastic about it, and best of all - he didn't feel any guilt about having hit the pause button. My mentee's project is focussed around teacher self-care and wellness, and he...
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Browsing my Twitter feed this morning and I ran across a tweet from a friend in California. @TechCoachSusan tweeted, "Woooooot! Nothing like a little Springsteen to start you going in the morning!" and this made me think - "YES!! I love a good tune to get me going." Music is so essential in life, in my opinion. There is rarely a quiet moment in our house, as we always have music playing in the background, or turned up loud so we can enjoy a tune or two. One of our favourite things to do is to ask Google to play a song, and we wait to see what kind of playlist it keeps going with. Just this morning, my youngest daughter started our day off with "Footloose" and the next song was A-HA's "Take On Me" - there was not a grumpy morning person in the house! Music can change a mood, and I love that this morning it amped up @TechCoachSusan so much that she tweeted about it. Wellness can be brought into our lives in so many ways, so let...
My daughter recently took part in a poetry workshop at school. Once it was over, her assignment for class was to write a poem and then deliver it in a spoken word performance to her class. If chosen, she would then compete against the other top poems from the other 5 classes in her grade. What she wrote and performed was so intensely personal. I was blown away by her courage to share, but more so by the profound words, technique and delivery of the poem itself (the English teacher in me!). She was extremely self-conscious about sharing with others in her school about her experience with anxiety, but I told her that she was likely helping others by sharing about what she has dealt with. A friend of mine, who is a teacher at her school commented on how she impacted other students with her words. My friend shared that at school she appears to be such a confident, composed and self-assured young lady, so in sharing her story and poetry, my friend overh...
I was having a conversation with my mom over Christmas. My mom is a worrier. She has three children - adult children - and she still worries. As a mother, I understand, as I will likely always worry and think about my daughters and their well being. In this conversation though, I had to think as a daughter. My mom is on the verge of retirement, along with her husband. They are so close to moving on to that next phase. They recently purchased a condo in Mexico and are anticipating spending the winter months under the sun in Mexico. As her daughter, not as a mother, I wanted to share some thoughts with my mom. For her own mental wellness, I had to tell her that she no longer needs to be as motherly - less worry. I was not saying she needed to stop worrying all together - no way - a mother isn't capable of that. What I did say was that for so long she has been the "buoy". She supports and holds us up when times are tough....
A close friend of mine reached out early in this new year and asked a favour. One of her best friends went missing over a year ago , and a huge Search and Rescue effort was put into place on Vancouver Island. To repay the Search and Rescue teams, her late friend's wife, family and friends are organizing a Facebook group to raise money and improve their health. She invited us to partake in a 21-day fitness challenge. To take part, we would donate $1 a day, so $21 to Search and Rescue. The challenge is simple - dedicate 30 minutes a day to working out, drink more water and eat a little better. We were automatically in because our friend means a lot to us, and we knew how much her friend that she lost meant to her. On top of everything else, mental health was at the root of this story, and that always strikes a chord with me. On January 6th, we began our fitness challenge. Recently I had trained and completed a half marathon, so it has been...
“What mental health needs is more sunlight, more candor, and more unashamed conversation.” – Glenn Close I love this quote by Glenn Close. When I read it, it reminded me that the entire reason why I wanted to create and start BeWellEDU is to start that "unashamed conversation". Each day I am reminded that people close to me are dealing with mental health struggles, and it isn't easy. Some have opened up that conversation and are quite public about how hard it is - that is something to applaud and support. Who I want to reach are those who haven't. If you are someone who is struggling to just get up, get dressed, walk out that door, or if you cringe at the thought of making it through another day - you aren't alone! If you need more sunlight in your life, wish you knew what was "wrong" with you, or simply can't remember the last time you truly got excited about life...you are not alone. I know it can be an unfathomable thi...
It has taken me a while to write this, as I wanted to be able to reflect and share with you the experience I had running the Humana Rock and Roll Half Marathon in Las Vegas. My husband, four friends and myself ran this race on November 17th. One of us, actually, ran the marathon - and WOW did she impress. What a feat to accomplish! We flew into Las Vegas the night before and got to our hotel around 9:30pm. When you know you are going to be running a huge race the next day, the whole "arriving in Las Vegas" scene looks very different. The next day we were sure to start hydrating as soon as we woke up. We tried to sleep in, but we ended up making it only to about 9am. The race began at 4:30pm, and we had to be at the start village to pick up our race packages at two. The start village was a quick walk from our hotel, so we returned to the hotel after getting our numbers. We walked back to the start village about an hour later, and the fi...